Learn to love yourself first

Once upon a time, a man lived with his wife and son in a small village. He worked hard all day and supported himself and his wife and children. There was a mountain a few miles from his house. The man often went to the top of the mountain and sat there for a while, watching nature and coming back home.

One morning, as he was leaving the house to go to the mountain, his son called from behind. The man stopped. His son approached him and grabbed his father's hand.

" I will go up the mountain with you today "

On hearing this, the father said to his son, "Son, you are too young now. The path is very difficult. You will get tired." But the son persisted. The father's hand was held very tightly. There was a ditch on one side of the road and rocks and bushes on the other side. Suddenly a big rock came in the way. He could not escape from the rock and his knees hit the rock hard. His son screamed in agony. The sound was so loud that it echoed in the surrounding mountains. The son thought that maybe he was making fun of him He shouted again

" Who are you? I will not leave you "

The father was standing and watching, and he understood what his son was thinking.

So his father turned his face towards the ditch and said in a loud voice

'' I love you very much ''

And the voice began to resound once more when the son saw the father doing this, he was surprised and smiled and said to his father that the person who is making fun of me is saying to you:

'' I love you very much''

I do not understand what is happening. The father smiled again and turned towards the ditch and said loudly:

'' you're so sweet ''

The father said that the voice you are hearing, again and again, is not the voice of someone else but it is your own voice that is echoing in the mountains and is being heard again and again. You hear as you speak. If you say something in anger, you will get angry in return. If you say something with love, the answer is love.

This is exactly what happens in our life as you think about our life. This life becomes the same for you. If you keep repeating in your heart that life is very bad, there are many worries in it, then your life will be really bad and if you love your life, it will love you too.

This became ingrained in the child's mind and they both started moving towards the top of the mountain. When they both reached the top of the mountain, the boy stretched out his hands and said with all his might.

'' I love you very much ''